Happy Endings?

This is written for a dear friend of mine who recently went through a heartbreak. This in fact is for every girl out there sulking over the fact that you lost the love of your life at the age of what, say 20? I don't want to be considered a hypocrite hence I accept the fact that  this also in its many forms is written by me for me.

Stop the whining girls. Just stop. You're in your twenties. Please stop the whining. Especially those who haven't even stepped out of their teen zone. There is no such thing as love. Even if there is, school textbooks cant teach you what it means. Nor can Nicholas Sparks. So don't go around boasting your life story as it it were right out of a Cecelia Ahern book and claim to be the only heartbroken miserable girl who lost love. Urrrgghhh.

He is not worth it. Guys are assh***s. Deal with it. If he cheated on you its not because you weren't pretty enough or that you weren't giving him enough space. It wasn't even karma. It was because the guy was a dickhead. He did not respect you enough, so you stop blaming yourself and go get a life. 

All those who claim for that guy to have been your life, it makes me feel sad as to how such idiotic pieces of shit become your life. You have a life without him. A better life. A beautiful life. A moron free life. So go cherish it. Go spend time pampering yourself. Girlfriends are the best therapy.

All those who claim that the guy was perfect and you pushed them away, well too bad. Firstly I don't believe that anybody is perfect. Secondly, if it did not work out it did not work out. the world did not stop there. So don't go sulking around. I'm a hundred percent sure he found another girlfriend and this I speak from experience. So why stop living your life.

Its a good thing that you still speak for him with affection and respect. But that doesn't mean everytime you listen to that one particular song you burst out into a speech of how you did not deserve him or how you wish he would come back to you. You don't want him back because he doesnt want you back. So stop with the speeches or the drunk texts. He is so not worth your time.

Girls this I write not because I am anti guys. Nor is it because I don't believe in love. Neither is it because I don't believe relations don't work. I have seen people completely crazy about each other living their fairy tale. But I believe in the fact that everything happens for a reason. Also there's always a brighter side to things. So go bitch slap somebody if that makes you feel better, go kiss another guy if you want to. Live your life. Don't limit yourself for men. Show them just how strong you are. But please for gods sake stop whining. You deserve better and you will get better. So wear your best clothes and head out. You never know when you might find someone.

For all my dear friends out there, listening to stupid break up songs, pick up your pieces put on some lipstick wear your best dress and live your life. You're *whatever your age is* only once. Why waste it?